We all have people in our lives that we keep around more out of habit than affection.
The people who keep coming around, even though we know they are not good for us, or we know they hurt us in the past and will continue to in the future.
But did you notice an unexplained urge to let them go?
If so, then the universe may be trying to tell you that you need to let go of this person.
Here are 15 signs that the universe wants you to let go of someone. Read on to learn more, and don’t forget: whatever the reason, if you notice these signs, it’s time to let go.
1) They try to change your habits and it makes you feel uncomfortable
Are you sick and tired of people trying to change your habits and behaviors?
Don’t even try to deny it. If someone doesn’t let you be who you are, chances are that you wouldn’t feel comfortable around this person.
Because they aren’t satisfied with who you are, they try to change the real you, and that is not a good thing.
The reason is that you aren’t expected to meet someone’s needs and expectations.
All you’re expected to be is yourself. But let’s be honest.
- Do people keep trying to tell you how to live your life, or trying to change you in any way?
- Do they make you feel bad about yourself?
And most importantly,
- Do you feel an unexplained need to let go whenever these attempts make you feel uncomfortable?
Then, the universe is trying to tell you that you need to let go of this person.
No matter how much you love them or how much you respect them, remember that if someone makes you feel bad about yourself, then you need to let go of this person as soon as possible.
2) You start to get upset about trivial matters
Have you noticed that recently you have started to get upset about trivial matters?
For example, you’re getting really upset and emotional over something that doesn’t even matter.
Or the fact that someone around you makes mistakes that don’t even matter to you, drives you mad.
And it’s not normal, right?
That’s why you might be wondering what’s wrong with you, why you are getting so upset, or why your attitude towards this one person has changed so quickly.
After all, they haven’t done something that would make you upset before.
And after all, you’ve always been so nice to them.
So, what’s changed?
The truth is that the universe may be trying to tell you that this person is not good for you in some way.
So, if you don’t understand why you’re getting upset about things that don’t really matter but that makes you upset, then let go of this person.
They are not good for you.
You need to let go of this person as soon as possible because the universe is trying to tell you something about them. Don’t ignore what the universe is trying to say to you, because it could end up being dangerous for your relationship.
3) You feel guilty that you aren’t spending enough time with them
Have you already felt that you feel guilty whenever you try to avoid spending time with this person?
If you haven’t, chances are that you will if the universe is really trying to show you that you need to let go of this person.
Why am I saying this?
Well, at some point in your relationship, you start feeling guilty that you aren’t spending enough time with them.
You start wondering why you’re not spending enough time with them. And it’s because the universe is trying to tell you something about them.
For example, let’s say that lately, whenever you’re together, the conversation is really boring and uninteresting for both of you. And it’s not your fault because things just naturally changed in your relationship.
So, what do you do?
You try to fix things, but it doesn’t work.
For example, you try to spend more time together or you try to make sure that the conversation is more interesting for both of you. But nothing works.
You start feeling guilty that you’re not spending enough time with this person and that’s why you’re not enjoying the conversation as much as before.
But you know what?
It’s just the way things are going to be if they keep hanging out together.
And of course, you don’t want to feel guilty anymore because, after all, you’re busy and you have a lot of things to do.
And that’s why you feel guilty when you try to avoid spending time with this person.
You’re just trying to make sure that they don’t get hurt. But maybe it’s time to let go of this relationship because this is another way of the universe showing you the right path.
But what if you feel that there’s something you can still do in order to save this relationship? What if you want to ensure that being guilty about the fact that you’re not spending enough time with them really means that you need to let go?
Then here’s what to do:
Contact a gifted advisor to help you clarify your thoughts
The signs we’re discussing in this article will give you a good idea of whether the universe is really trying to tell you that you need to let go of someone.
But if you’re unsure about your specific situation and feel that you need some more help, why don’t you get tailored advice from a gifted advisor?
Believe it or not, they can answer all sorts of questions and give you the guidance you’re looking for.
Like, why are you feeling guilty in this relationship? Does it mean that you need to let go? How or when should you let go of this person?
When I spoke to someone from Psychic Source after going through a rough patch in my relationship, they really helped me out. After months of not feeling like myself, I was finally able to see my situation with better clarity and direction.
Not to mention, I was extremely impressed by how kind, empathetic, and understanding of my unique situation they were.
In s reading, a gifted advisor can tell you whether you need to let go of this person, and most importantly, empower you to take steps forward when the right time comes.
4) You don’t try to fix things anymore, because nothing works
Get ready for this one because it’s the most important reason why the universe is trying to tell you something about someone:
So, let’s say that lately, whenever something goes wrong between the two of you, instead of feeling angry or annoyed about it, instead of being upset by it, instead of doing anything like that…
You just don’t think about it anymore.
Does this sound familiar?
If this is the case, you might be in the exact situation where the universe is trying to tell you something.
And here’s why:
When you try to fix things, you’ll never be able to get rid of that feeling of frustration, annoyance, anger, or whatever other emotion you’re feeling. This will just keep on lingering in your mind and heart. And that’s not good for anyone.
After all, you tried so hard to fix things. You did everything you could do, but nothing worked, right?
That’s why you stopped trying.
Because you felt like something was wrong.
And that’s exactly what the universe is trying to tell you: You’re letting go of this relationship, and it’s not because of a particular event or specific reason.
No. It’s because you’ve decided to let go.
But why did you decide to let go? Why did you choose to not care anymore? Why did you stop trying? Why did you just give up?
There are many reasons why someone would choose to not be bothered by something anymore. Let me give you a few examples:
Maybe they’ve had enough of a certain person in their life, or they’ve dealt with too much drama in their relationships, or they’ve been hurt too many times by this particular person… And so on…
There are a lot of reasons why someone might decide to let go of someone else.
So why are you even bothering? Why don’t you just let go of this person? Why don’t you try something new? Something different? It’ll be better for both of you in the long run.
The one thing that I’m sure about is that you need to let go! At least, that’s what the universe is trying to tell you.
There’s no way for you to fix this relationship, but there is a way for you to let go and start over.
5) You haven’t felt happy around them lately
Let me ask you a question.
How often did you use to be happy around that person?
Often? Or, did you always used to be happy around them at all?
Whatever your answer is, you probably notice that things have dramatically changed over the past few years.
You’ve been feeling less happy around that person.
And now you probably wonder:
What’s going on here? Why am I not happy anymore? Why do I feel so much less happy around this person than I used to?
Well, this is because there are too many unresolved issues between the two of you. You might even say that there are too many unresolved feelings between the two of you.
And guess what?
It’s like something inside of you is telling you to let go, and it’s telling you now is the time to do it!
THe truth is that this “something” is much more than just a “thing”. Actually, it;’s the universe taht gives you signs to let go.
So, if you’re not happy, it’s because you’re still holding on to something that happened in the past.
And in this case, this is the universe telling you to let go and start over. Now is the time to make a change for your own good!
6) You notice pressure from this person which makes you feel bad
What’s the one thing that you notice every time you’re around this person?
Is it that they always want to talk about their big plans for the future? Or is it that they always want to talk about what you should do next?
Whatever they talk about, if you feel that they try to force you to do something, it probably means that there’s something wrong with this relationship.
I’m sure that you’ve noticed that there are way too many unresolved issues between the two of you.
The truth is that you feel pressured and stressed out by this person’s constant desire to change your life. You just can’t stand it anymore. Why?
Because the fact that someone is trying to force you to change can’t be something that you want.
It means that you’re not happy. In fact, you might even feel like leaving the relationship. But, before you do that, I have some good news for you.
The good news is that something inside of you is telling you to let go, and it’s telling you now is the time to do it!
So, listen to the universe and let go of this person.
You’ll be so happy you did it!
7) You feel trapped and don’t know what to do about it.
What do you feel like when you’re around them? Is it a pleasant feeling of comfort or is it a feeling of unease?
I’m sure that if the universe is sending you these signals to let go of this person, then you feel trapped in this relationship and don’t know what to do about it.
Well, if you feel like you have no choice but to be around them, then this means that this relationship isn’t something that you want.
But hang on a second.
Why do you feel trapped? What is the reason for this strange feeling?
The reason why you feel trapped is that the universe is telling you to let go of this relationship and start over. It’s just a hint from the universe that something isn’t right. And by feeling trapped, the universe expects you to heed its call and change.
And the truth is that these feelings are a big indication that there are too many unresolved issues between the two of you.
You’re feeling trapped by these unresolved issues and emotions, which makes it impossible for you to let go and start over.
But you feel confused and don’t know what to do about it, do you?
So, is there anything you can do to empower your emotions and take back control over your mind?
Yes, there is!
Let me tell you a secret.
At a time when I was dealing with a myriad of emotions and anxieties, I was introduced to an incredibly invigorating breathwork video, created by the shaman Rudá Iandê.
Now you might be wondering, how can breathwork transform your feelings of being trapped in a relationship?
Well, through the breathwork sequences Rudá has created in this life-changing video, you’ll learn to breathe through your emotions, taking back control over your actions and reactions.
But most importantly, you’ll gain a better understanding of your mind and body.
And yes, it really is as simple as taking a breath.
So why am I so confident this will help you?
Well, Rudá isn’t just your average shaman. He’s spent years combining ancient shamanic healing traditions with breathwork techniques to create this unique flow.
This sequence is my go-to whenever I need to stop, reset, and reconnect with myself.
So if you’re ready to take a step towards reconnecting with yourself and injecting a breath of fresh air into your life, check out Rudá’s excellent breathwork flow.
8) You start to feel uncomfortable around them
You’re feeling uncomfortable around this person, right?
And it’s not just a feeling. It’s a fact.
Your body is telling you that you need to let go of this person as soon as possible. Your mind is telling you that there is something wrong with them and their behavior, and that makes you feel uncomfortable.
Your heart is also telling you that they aren’t good for you in some way, which makes your whole body feel uncomfortable.
Do you see where we’re going with this?
The universe is telling you that this person is not good for you, but your mind is trying to convince you otherwise.
But this time, you need to listen to your emotions which are also telling you that there is something wrong with this person and their behavior.
Because the universe knows for sure that your relationship with this person is not good for you.
Your mind can’t see it because your mind is trying to convince you that this person is good for you and that everything is fine.
But you feel the truth from the universe, don’t you?
So, this time, listen to your emotions instead of your mind. And what’s more important, follow the universe’s advice instead of the lies of your mind.
You need to let go of this person as soon as possible or else you will be in a lot of pain in the future. Don’t ignore what your body and heart are telling you – trust them!
9) You notice a change in this person’s behavior towards you
Ever noticed a change in this person’s behavior towards you?
You know, it’s like they’ve changed and started acting differently towards you.
But how do you know?
Well, they are acting strangely, they are more cold and distant, they ignore you more often than usual, so they no longer give you any compliments on the things that you do.
Is it because of something that happened in their life recently? Or is it because of something that happened in your relationship recently?
To make matters worse, maybe it’s because of something that happened in both of your lives recently.
Whatever the case is, you need to quickly take note of this change in their behavior towards you. Why?
Let me explain.
If two people have been together for a long time, they develop certain patterns of behavior towards one another.
But if their behavior has changed, the way they behave towards you could be a sign that something is wrong with your relationship.
The thing is, this person is not good for you and you need to get out of there as soon as possible. So, listen to these signs from the universe and let go of this person as soon as possible.
10) You’re fed up with the way they treat you
What do you feel like when you’re around this person?
Is it a feeling of being ignored or is it a feeling of being embarrassed or upset?
If the universe is sending you these signals to let go of this person, then you feel that they don’t care about you at all. And by feeling this way, the universe expects you to care more about yourself!
If I were to ask you what’s wrong with this relationship, wouldn’t it make sense if your response would be something like: “They don’t care about me.”?
The truth is that if someone doesn’t care about your feelings, then why would they want to be around them? And so by feeling this way, the universe expects these two people to start caring not for each other but for themselves.
But what is the reason why you feel fed up with this person?
It might be because they’re not treating you with the kind of respect and love that you deserve. And this makes you wish to take a break and distance yourself from them.
It might also be because this person has been treating you badly for a long time and you finally decided to say something about it. And if you’re fed up with their behavior, then the universe expects them to stop treating you badly.
So if you feel this way and can’t bear this person’s behavior anymore, take note of these feelings and take action. When the universe is sending signals to let go of someone, then it’s time for that person to get out of your life.
11) You feel a deep sense of sadness and loneliness when interacting with them
Let them take a wild guess.
You feel a deep sense of sadness and loneliness when interacting with them. You can’t help but feel sad when you see or talk to them. And this feeling doesn’t go away when you talk to other people.
If I were to ask you what’s wrong with this relationship, wouldn’t it make sense if your response would be something like: “They make me feel sad and lonely.”?
The truth is that if someone makes you feel sad and lonely, then it means they’re not treating you right and they’re not fulfilling their responsibilities towards you.
So if they are making your life miserable, then this might be a sign from the universe that you should end your relationship with them.
But what if you feel uncertain about this important step? What can you do to take action?
Yes, it’s true that you can’t change the fact that you feel sad and lonely when you see or talk to them. But you can choose to not let these feelings overwhelm your life by speaking to a gifted advisor.
I mentioned earlier how speaking to a gifted advisor can reveal the truth about the right time when you should let go of someone from your life.
Rather than just analyzing the signs in the hopes of getting answers, a gifted advisor can give you real clarity on your situation.
And the best part of speaking to the folks at Psychic Source?
Not only can they give you guidance on when you should give up on this person, but they can empower you to let go of them at the right time.
12) You feel the urge to leave them but can’t find a way out from their clutches
Do you feel the urge to leave them but can’t find a way out of their clutches?
Do you feel that you have to get out of this relationship, but you don’t know how?
If this sounds like you, then this is a very difficult situation.
You might be thinking that this person is just not treating you right and you should cut them loose. The result?
You’ve decided to make the break, but you feel uncertain about how you should go about it.
Well, I can tell you that there’s a solution to this problem.
You don’t have to be afraid of the consequences of making the break. You don’t have to worry about how you will ever be able to get over this person and move on with your life.
Because their wrong behavior isn’t your fault. You aren’t guilty of losing interest in this relationship because you tried so hard to fix it.
No, you’re not at fault. You’re not the reason this relationship isn’t working out.
You are not responsible for the pain you’re feeling right now. No matter how badly they treat you, there’s no reason why you should feel bad about leaving this person behind.
But you do feel the urge to leave them, right?
So, if an urge comes over you to leave but can’t find a way out from their clutches, then it may be time for a change. It may be the right to let them go from your life for good.
13) You notice them trying to control your life in some way or another
Is there anything that this person has done recently that indicates that they don’t trust your decisions?
Maybe it’s about the way they control your money. Maybe it’s about the way they ask for your help with their work. Or maybe it’s about the way they always want to know where you are at all times.
If that’s the case, remember:
If this person tries to control your life in some way or another, then this probably means that they don’t respect your decisions.
And this in turn means that they don’t trust you or want to control you for their benefit.
I know that you might be thinking that your relationship is different from most others and that you shouldn’t judge it by their behavior.
Well, I’m not saying this relationship is bad. But this person is trying to control you in some way or another, so there’s a chance that they don’t respect your decisions.
And you know what?
This is another sure sign from the universe that you should let go of this person.
So, listen to the universe.
14) You feel that you’re not getting enough attention from this person
Let me guess. You recently noticed that you’re not getting enough attention from this person, right?
And you might be thinking that you don’t deserve more attention because you tried so hard to make the relationship work. You might be thinking that they don’t deserve your time and affection because they’ve been neglecting you lately.
If this is the case, remember:
If this person is not giving you enough attention, then it’s most likely because they don’t care about your feelings.
They don’t care about how you feel or what you need or want.
So you know what?
It’s best to let go of them before things get worse. They’re not worth your time and affection if they aren’t willing to show you some sort of love and affection on a regular basis.
At least, that’s what the universe is telling you by showing these signs.
15) You feel like something is missing in your relationship with him/her
Well, I know that just hearing that makes you want to immediately dump this person right now.
But before doing that, let me ask a question:
You know, something that you don’t even know what it is? But you feel it in your gut.
If so, then maybe it’s time to let go of this person because they are not good for you at all.
Still not convinced?
Well, let me ask you another question:
Do you feel like something is missing in your life? Do you feel like there’s something missing that you can’t figure out? Do you feel incomplete or empty inside?
If so, then it’s definitely time to let go of this person because they’re not for you. You know, an empty shell of a person is just as bad as a dead person. And the universe will make sure that they are not good for your life.
So, if this is the case, listen to the universe and let go of them. It’s better to be alone than with someone who doesn’t have any feelings at all.
Let’s rewind and figure out what you can do if you notice most of these signs from the universe to let go of someone.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. They’ve consistently helped me in the past when I’ve felt trapped in one of my relationships.
That’s why I always recommend them to anyone facing issues with taking active steps forward to change something in their relationships. Their advisors can help you get to the root of your problems and guide you in making empowered decisions about your future.
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