Are you feeling a strong connection with someone?
This can be a rare occurrence, and it begs the question: do they feel the same connection?
Today you will find out the answer to this question and the signs you can look out for.
Is a strong connection always mutual?
There are times when you feel a strong connection with someone and it’s mutual, but this is not always the case.
We have all been in this situation where we have felt an instantaneous connection to someone.
We can’t put our finger on what it is about them, but we just know there is something special about them.
In some cases, the person you share this connection with also shares the same feeling of love and admiration for you. But sometimes they don’t!
You see, our imagination can play tricks on us sometimes, and wishful thinking can lead us to believe that the connection is mutual.
Lucky for you, here are some signs that it’s not all in your head and that your connection truly is based on mutuality.
What are the signs a connection is mutual?
1) There is reciprocity
One of the most common signs of a mutual connection is reciprocity.
If you feel a connection with someone, they are likely to feel the same way if you notice that they reciprocate the efforts you put in.
If someone doesn’t want to talk on the phone or hang out in person, the feelings might be one-sided.
Reciprocity means that both people want to talk or hang out with each other.
This is important because this shows that you are connecting on a deeper level than just being friends.
The more you connect, the more you feel the same way about each other.
Simply put, the connection becomes mutual when there is reciprocity and it’s not one-sided.
You can’t fake reciprocity, so if you feel it, then it’s true!
Some questions you can ask yourself to find out if there is reciprocity are:
- Are you always the one reaching out, or do they text/call you, as well?
- Do they ask you to hang out?
- Is the conversation one-sided or do they ask you questions?
- Are you both laughing and having a good time together?
2) A gifted advisor confirms it
The points in this article will give you a good idea of how to tell when a strong connection is mutual.
But what if you’d like advice tailored to your unique situation?
A gifted advisor can answer all sorts of questions and give you the guidance you’re searching for.
Like, are they feeling the same? Are you meant to be with them?
When I spoke to someone from Psychic Source after feeling confused about someone, they really helped me out.
After months of wondering, I was finally able to see my situation with better clarity and direction.
Not to mention, I was extremely impressed by how kind, empathetic, and understanding of my unique situation they were.
In a reading, a gifted advisor can tell you whether a connection is mutual, and most importantly, empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to your life.
3) They have a special look in their eyes when you have eye contact
When you look in someone’s eyes and they look back, you can tell if they feel the same connection.
They will have a special look in their eyes when they make eye contact with you. This is one of the signs that they are feeling the same connection as you do.
It’s kind of hard to explain what I mean with this point, but you’ll know it when you see it.
Plus, eye contact is always a sign of a connection.
People who don’t like someone usually avoid prolonged eye contact at all costs.
But if someone is interested in you, they will keep looking at you for as long as it takes.
They will make eye contact with you and look at you for a prolonged period of time.
When a connection is mutual, the eyes are an important indicator of how the connection feels.
4) The body language says a lot
When you have a strong connection with someone, your body language typically changes.
You may find yourself not being able to stop smiling.
The other person will probably feel the same way too, and they may also be more open to touch. They may lean in closer to you, and they’ll also try to maintain more eye contact.
The other person might even mirror your own body language, like if you’re standing up then they will stand up too.
So: if you notice that their body language is mirroring yours and they are getting close to you, that’s a sign of mutual connection.
5) They remember minor details about you
If someone really cares about you, they will remember small details about you.
For example, if you mention that you like to drink iced tea, they may bring it up later in the conversation or ask what kind of tea you like.
This is a hallmark sign that they care about you and feel the same way about you.
Think about it: if you don’t like someone, you either don’t remember details at all or don’t bother bringing them up because you don’t want to prove anything to them.
I mentioned earlier how speaking to a gifted advisor can reveal the truth about whether they feel the same connection as you.
Rather than just analyzing the signs in the hopes of getting answers, a gifted advisor can give you real clarity on your situation.
And the best part of speaking to the folks at Psychic Source?
Not only can they give you guidance on your situation, but they can empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to your love life.
6) You feel it in your gut
If you feel a strong connection with someone, you may notice that you have that feeling in your gut.
This is because feelings of attraction and love originate from the limbic system, which is located in the brain.
This part of the brain handles both our emotions and our memories.
When we experience an attraction to someone, our limbic system sends out signals that are related to those emotions and memories to our gut.
This is why it feels like butterflies in your stomach when you are feeling attracted to someone or have strong feelings for them.
This is also why people get butterflies when they go on a first date or meet up with someone after not seeing them for a while.
How do you know this feeling is reciprocated?
Well, your intuition really is the biggest guide here.
When you just have a knowing, but you can’t put your finger on it, there is a good chance that the connection is mutual.
7) Their cheeks are blushed when you’re around them
It’s a sure sign of mutual connection when the other person’s cheeks are blushed when you’re around them.
This is because the blood vessels near their face will dilate and expand.
This reaction can be triggered by a variety of emotions, but it is mainly associated with positive emotions like attraction.
If they blush when they see you coming, this could be a good sign. They might also blush when they are talking to you or whenever they talk about you.
So: unless it’s unusually hot in the room or they have a fever, blushing is a prime indicator of a connection being mutual.
8) They show up in your dreams
A sign that someone feels the same connection as you is when they show up in your dreams.
While this is an unlikely occurrence, it does happen!
You see, although your dreams are often influenced by your own emotions, when someone thinks about you a lot, their energy can influence your subconscious, too.
You may also feel a strong connection with someone if they start to show up in your dreams.
This could be a sign that he or she is becoming more than just a friend to you and that the connection is based on mutuality.
9) You feel your heart open around them
When you feel like you are really connecting with someone, it often makes your heart feel open and happy.
It’s natural to want to spend a lot of time with them, and it might make you feel like your best self. You might not even be able to stop smiling around them.
You don’t have to worry about whether they share the same feelings for you because there are other signs that will tell you this as well.
Usually, feeling your heart open like that only happens around someone who feels safe. A part of your body already knows that the connection is mutual.
This is a beautiful sign, and you should enjoy it. There is no better feeling than feeling your heart open up like that.
It also means that a part of you already trusts this person completely.
10) You feel inexplicably drawn to them
One of the most common signs that you have a connection with someone is when you find yourself inexplicably drawn to them.
You may find that this person is always on your mind, and you can’t get them out of your head.
Sometimes that happens when the other person is also thinking about you and therefore attracting you even more.
This can be one of the best signs that there’s something between you two, but it doesn’t always mean it’s reciprocated.
If this person has been showing other signs too, such as sharing personal stories or even being touchy-feely with you, it could mean they feel the same way.
This can make for a strong connection!
Only you can know
There are many signs that point to mutual connection, but in the end, only you can truly know.
Listen to what your heart and intuition are telling you and when in doubt, simply ask them!
Think about it: if they are the right person for you, they will not be taken aback by that question.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. They’ve consistently helped me in the past when I’ve felt stuck in a rut.
That’s why I always recommend them to anyone facing issues with their love life.
Their advisors can help you get to the root of your problems and guide you in making empowered decisions about your future.
When I got recently signed up for a love reading, I was blown away by how kind and genuinely helpful they were.