When the person you love leaves you, it feels like the end of the world.
You don’t want to get out of bed.
You can’t stop crying.
Life no longer makes any sense.
I know, I know. I’ve been there more than once.
Now you’re probably asking yourself, “Why did he leave?” and “Will he ever come back?”
Look at it this way: If it’s meant to be, then he’ll come back. If not, someone way better will come along.
But how can you know if you should wait for him or move on?
If your ex is coming back, there are actually many spiritual signs that will let you know.
Let’s take a look:
1) You keep running into him
When you break up with your boyfriend, it’s natural to avoid each other like the plague.
After all, who wants to be reminded of their failed relationship every time they walk past each other?
However, if the two of you constantly keep running into each other, it could be a sign that the universe still has plans for the two of you.
It’s one thing to run into your ex at his favorite coffee shop, but if you keep bumping into him at the most unusual places, there’s a very strong chance that he’s coming back.
There are so many spiritual signs around to guide us, we just have to be open-minded and know how to spot them.
2) He’s constantly on your mind
If your ex has been out of your life for a while, and yet you can’t stop thinking about him, it could be a spiritual sign that he wants to come back into your life.
You’ll find yourself constantly thinking about him, no matter what you’re doing. I mean you could be in a meeting at work, at the dentist, or even out jogging – and there he’d be, taking over your thoughts.
There’s no escape. You may feel like you’re going crazy.
But listen, if you miss your ex, chances are he misses you too.
If your mind is consumed with thoughts of your ex, then his mind is filled with thoughts of you.
It’s obvious that your story doesn’t end here. I’ll bet that he will get in touch with you in the next few days.
3) You keep dreaming about him
Dreams can be a powerful indication of your subconscious desires.
But did you know that they’re also a way for the universe to send you signs and a channel for telepathic communication between two people who share a strong bond?
Pretty wild huh?
If you’ve recently broken up with your ex and you’re having recurring dreams about him, it could be one or all of the following:
- You miss him and you want to get back together. P
- It’s possible that you’re dreaming about your ex as a way of processing your breakup.
- The universe is telling you that you two have unfinished business.
- He misses you and is reaching out to you telepathically through your dreams.
Dreams can be strange and mysterious, but they can also be very accurate.
If you keep dreaming about your ex, I’d say there’s a very high chance that he’s dreaming about you too.
4) He’s constantly talking about the “good old days”
It’s been a while since you and your boyfriend broke up and you’ve decided to have a friendly coffee together and catch up.
And what does he do the whole time you are together?
He talks about the past!
He doesn’t talk about the present or his plans for the future. Instead, he reminisces about the “good old days” he had with you.
What does that tell you?
I think it’s pretty obvious.
If he just can’t stop talking about the great times you had together, it’s because he wants to get back together.
5) It’s written in the cards
It can be difficult to know what your ex is thinking. And if you don’t know how to read the signs that the universe is sending you – you’ll be wrecking your brain trying to figure out if he’s coming back or not.
So why not talk to someone who specializes in reading the signs? I’m talking about a psychic of course.
From Tarot card readings to spiritual readings and Angel card readings, Psychic Source has dozens of truly gifted advisors that will be able to help you read the signs and know for sure whether your ex is coming back or if you should move on.
I know it seems daunting if you’ve never spoken to a psychic before, but I can tell you from my own experience that the folks at Psychic Source are not only gifted, but kind and understanding.
So what are you waiting for? It’s as easy as going onto their site and picking the advisor that speaks to you the most.
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6) He’s still hanging out with your friends
Is it weird that your ex is still hanging out with your friends?
Why yes, yes it is!
I’m not talking about mutual friends, I’m talking about YOUR friends.
Surely he’d want to distance himself from you after the breakup, and this means distancing himself from your friends too.
I mean, how can you both move on if you’re still involved (albeit indirectly) in each other’s lives?
Unless… he doesn’t actually want to move on.
The only reason that he’d keep hanging out with your friends is that he wants to keep you in his life. By keeping in touch with them, he’s able to keep tabs on you and find you what you’re up to.
Let’s face it, it’s another sign that he wants to get back together.
7) He isn’t showing any signs of moving on
It’s been a while since you guys broke up but your ex is showing no signs of moving on.
He’s still in touch with you. He likes to spend time with your friends. He’s still single and not dating anyone new.
If he isn’t moving on, it’s likely that he wants you back in his life.
8) Your song keeps playing on the radio
If your song keeps playing on the radio, it could be another spiritual sign that your ex misses you.
I mean, what are the chances that you’d keep hearing that specific song over and over again? It’s not even a very recent song. It has to mean something.
But hey, it could be a coincidence, right? I mean, what do I know?
The best thing would be to speak to someone at Psychic Source. Tell them about these “coincidences” in your life and see what they think.
If anyone can tell the difference between a coincidence and a spiritual sign, it’s a gifted advisor.
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9) He’s all over your social media
If your ex is active on your social media, it could be a sign that he wants you back.
If you’ve recently ended your relationship and he’s suddenly “liking” all your pictures and commenting on your social media posts, it’s because he’s not ready to move on.
By being active on your social media, he’s not only keeping tabs on you but staying involved in your life.
Trust me, if he wanted to move on and forget about you, he’d stop following you on social media.
10) He keeps sending you texts to check-in with you
Sending you texts to say “hello” and to “check-in “ with you clearly shows that your ex still cares about you.
Even if you ended things on a good note, there’d be no reason for him to keep in touch so often.
Think about it: It’s one thing to wish you a happy birthday or a happy new year, and it’s another thing to send you several messages a week just to see how you are.
It’s no way to move on, that’s for sure.
Maybe he’s not consciously planning anything, he’s just following his gut by staying in touch. But if you ask me, it’s another spiritual sign that he’s coming back. You just wait and see.
11) He doesn’t think anyone you date is good enough for you
So you’ve decided to stay friends with your ex and he knows that you’re out dating again.
And guess what?
He doesn’t think anyone you’re dating is good enough for you.
He might make fun of the way a guy dresses or talks. He’ll tell you that he doesn’t have a good enough job or that he has no sense of humor.
Now, he won’t come right out and tell you that he doesn’t want you to date other guys – he may not even know it himself, but trust me, if nobody you date is ever good enough, it means only one thing: The only guy good enough for you is your ex.
12) He’s affectionate towards you
If your ex has been cold towards you since you broke up and suddenly becomes affectionate again, it could be a sign that he wants you back in his life.
Now he’s sweet, kind, and thoughtful… everything he should have been when you were dating.
What’s going on?
Breakups are not easy. Everyone needs some time and space to process their feelings. If he was cold when you broke up, especially if things got heated and you both said things you didn’t mean, it’s because he was feeling angry and hurt.
After taking some time to come to terms with what’s happened, he’s realized that there’s a huge void in his life where you used to be. He misses you.
So if he’s affectionate when he sees you, it’s because he’s happy to be around you once again.
It’s likely that he’s realized what a mistake letting you go was and he’s trying to win you back.
13) He’s still there for you when you need him
If your ex is always there for you when you need him, it’s because he still cares about you.
Think about it: Why else would he still be such a positive presence in your life?
If you need help with anything – he’s the first person to show up. If you need a shoulder to cry on, his shoulder is the most comfortable… It’s almost as if you two never broke up.
I’d say that this was a pretty big sign that he wants to be more than just a friendly ex.
14) He’s still in touch with your parents
You broke up and yet your ex still talks to your parents once a week?
Let me explain something:
Even if your ex and your parents got on well, after you broke up, the logical thing would be for their “relationship” to end as well. If they ever bumped into each other they could be friendly and exchange a few words – that would be normal.
But if he’s actively working to keep the relationship he has with your parents alive, it can only mean one thing: he wants to stay close to you.
It’s clear as day that he wants to get back together. He’s probably hoping that your folks will put in a good word for him.
15) He makes you laugh
Even though you guys broke up a few months ago, your ex is still around to make you laugh. Whether it’s over coffee or by text, it’s like he makes it his priority to get you smiling and laughing.
And when you think about it, you don’t really know anyone else that shares your twisted sense of humor.
Instead of going out there and making some other girl laugh, he’s still making you laugh.
I don’t think you guys are really over. So what are you waiting for? Kiss and make up already.
How to make sure your ex comes back
Ask yourself why you broke up
Asking yourself why you broke up will help to determine what you need to do to get your ex back.
If you broke up because there were communication or trust issues in the relationship, then you will need to work on those issues before moving forward.
If you broke up because he wasn’t ready for a serious relationship, then you may want to wait until he is in a place where he wants to be in a serious relationship.
If you’re not sure why things didn’t work out, talk to your ex about it. Ask him why he thinks you broke up and really listen to what he has to say.
Communication is key during this phase and will help you to move forward and resolve any issues that you may have had during the relationship.
If you need any outside help figuring out what went wrong, why not talk to a professional relationship coach?
Relationship Hero is a popular website with dozens of experienced relationship coaches to choose from.
And the best part? Most of them have a degree in psychology.
I’ve spoken to two different coaches and they each gave me extremely helpful advice, in fact, one of them even saved my marriage.
Get in touch with them and let them share their insight with you.
Be sure you want to get back together
A lot of people try to get back together with their exes because they’re scared of being alone.
That’s a terrible reason.
The only valid reason for getting back together is if you still love each other.
Be absolutely sure that you want to try to get back together with your ex before moving forward. If you’re not sure of your feelings for him, then take some time to think.
You can even try going on a date or two with someone else and see how it feels.
Bottom line: Only get back together with your ex if that’s what you really want. Otherwise, you’re sure to regret it down the line and you’ll probably end up breaking up again.
Give him some space
If your relationship ended abruptly and you are trying to get back together with your ex, then it may be best to give him some space in order for him to miss you and to get over the breakup.
It may be tempting to try and get him to come back to you but giving him space will actually be more effective in the long run.
Trust me, you don’t want to seem clingy or desperate – there’s no bigger turn-off.
Give him some time to heal from the breakup and you will come off as more confident and relaxed.
And some space will be good for you too and give you some time to work on yourself.
Don’t try to change him
If you broke up with your ex-boyfriend because he wasn’t ready for a serious relationship, then you need to wait until he is ready. You can’t force someone to commit to you.
If he is still not ready for a serious relationship and you try to change him, then the relationship won’t last and you’ll just end up getting hurt again.
Instead, try to find a balance between having fun and being casual and friendly while also waiting for him to be ready for a serious commitment.
Show him that you are interested in a long-term relationship but don’t pressure him to make any decisions about the relationship until he is ready.
Take some time for yourself
If you are still hung up on your ex-boyfriend, it’s going to be tempting to try and get him back right away.
However, if you act too soon, you may end up pushing him away.
Your ex will see that you are desperate and he won’t come running back to you.
Instead of trying to track down your ex and begging him to come back, take some time for yourself.
Go out with your friends, explore new hobbies, and find new ways to occupy your time.
This will show your ex-boyfriend that you are not desperate and that you are moving on.
I know, I know. I’m a feminist and my advice is to look your best.
But what can I say? Guys are very visual creatures.
It’s quite simple: If you want your ex-boyfriend to come back to you, then you need to look your best.
You need to make him regret ever letting you go and you only have one way to do that – by looking amazing.
Get your hair done, buy some sexy new clothes, and get a manicure.
And the best part? Getting a makeover will make you feel more confident and in control. And what’s sexier than a confident woman who knows what she wants?
Work on any issues that may have caused the breakup
If one or both of you ended the relationship because there were trust issues or communication issues, then it is important that you fix those issues before moving forward.
If you broke up because you didn’t trust your ex-boyfriend, then you need to learn to trust him – otherwise, you’ll just go back to where it all fell apart.
If your ex broke up with you because he didn’t feel like you were open enough or because he didn’t feel like he could be himself around you, then you should try to become more open and relaxed.
Communicate with your ex-boyfriend and don’t be too uptight or serious. Show him that you want him to be himself and that you are open to anything.
Be casual and friendly, don’t show too much interest
If you want to get your ex back, then it is important that you don’t come on too strong.
If you are too eager to get back together with your ex-boyfriend, then he will know that you are desperate and he won’t come running back to you. Instead, be casual and friendly.
Let him come to you.
Try to be around him at social events. Be friendly, say hello, and go back to your friends. Or even better, your date. Let him know that you’re moving on and that if he doesn’t act soon, he could lose you to another guy.
Make him miss you
If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, then you need to make him miss you and want to be with you again.
If you give him some space and start to move on with your life, you’ll show him that he made a mistake and that he wants to be with you again.
Getting your ex-boyfriend back after a breakup isn’t going to happen overnight.
It will take time and effort on your part but if you follow these steps, there is a good chance that he will come running back to you.
Don’t get upset or impatient if he doesn’t come back right away.
If you follow these steps and are patient, you will soon have your ex back in your life and you will have a happy relationship with him again.
If you have any other questions about the spiritual signs he will come back or how to make sure he does, I really recommend talking to someone at Psychic Source. I’ve been using them for the last year and can guarantee they’re the real deal.
Not only are they gifted, but they’re kind and understanding. I always feel like a huge weight has been lifted after I have a session with one of their mediums.
So why not let them help you out too?